If you're hitting the dating scene or are finally looking for that special someone, you may want to know how to attract a man. There are a few key traits that make you more attractive to men, which we'll take a look at today.
Nothing is sexier than when a woman is confident about herself. Looks, personality, intelligence – you've already got it all, you just have to believe in yourself! Women who are unsure of themselves may attract men, but it isn't the right kind of man. Women who are self loathing, or unsure of themselves, tend to attract men who prey on those types of women – i.e. users, and abusers.
Know Your Own Self
Before you can know how to attract a man or be part of any meaningful relationship, you have to know your own self first. Who are you, and what do you want? What values are so important to you that you wouldn't be willing to compromise them in a relationship? Take a little journey of self exploration to figure yourself out, if necessary. Building a whole sense of “you” is vital not just on figuring out how to attract a man, but also just for a general sense of well being.
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How To Attract A Man: Look The Part
Looking the part is also vital in how to attract a man. Start by taking care of yourself. Eat healthy, stay hydrated, and get enough sleep. Cardio and strength training can help you to tone, lose weight, and just feel really great all around. The little things are important. You don't have to look like you've just stepped off the runway, but make sure you brushed your teeth, put on deodorant, or sprayed a bit of perfume on if you enjoy it. Doing your makeup and hair is always a bonus, and can make you feel more confident as well. But remember, makeup is not a replacement for self-confidence, but merely make you more of what you already are.
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Be A Great Conversationalist
If you want to know how to attract a man, you have to look past the initial attraction. He may approach you for your sense of confidence, or beauty, but he won't stick around if you've got nothing to say. Don't be afraid to speak on things you know, no matter what they are. Be confident in what you say, not just how you look, and don't forget to ask him about his interests as well. Being a great conversationalist also means being a great listener.